![]() G) A girl mentions K-pop in her profile and how she loves girl groups like Girls Generation, 4Minute, T-ara and Crayon Pop. I PM her, talking about our mutual interests. What happened? She didn't reply.į) An animal lover talks about how she loves dogs, cats and horses. I PM her talking about our mutual interests. I send her a slightly humorous/negging message that literally said "You're into bikes? I think they're quite dangerous." What happened? She replied, but acting like I seriously insulted her, sent a rather vulgar reply back calling me a 'little fucking kid' and blocked me.Į) A girl gamer talks about how she's into PC gaming and even has a profile name that suggests either the name of a Starcraft unit or enemy in Diablo. Worse, she didn't even look at my profile.ĭ) A biker girl talks about how much she loves motorbikes. ![]() What happened? She didn't reply.Ĭ) A girl talks about how men who "tlk lyk dis" shouldn't bother with her. I send her a well-thought message about how I love the same music she does and use the correct grammar and don't act like I have swag. What happened? She didn't reply.ī) A girl who made great emphasis on how many illiterate users who have 'swag' and use terms like YOLO message her talks about her interests in metal and puink music. I PM her a well-thought message about how I agree with feminism and love dogs, having owned a pet myself. I'll give a good number of personal examples.Ī) A feminist and dog lover says she doesn't like racists, homophobes, misogynists or people who can't read or write. This makes it sound like they will message people who write a proper, coherent message to them about their interests. How to be nice and respectful.ģ) Women, why are you so selective about replying to PMs?Ī common complaint I have seen on women's POF profiles has either been the amount of perverted mail messages they have received or the number of men who can't spell or know nothing about grammar. This is something most of POF's userbase apparently doesn't understand. Even though she was really unattractive to me, I had the decency to at least reply to her and have a conversation to her not because I was leading her on but because I was being nice. While I have initiated contact with dozens upon dozens of women and usually got about a 1 - 2% reply rate for my efforts in typing a well-thought message I have only ever had one female user initiate contact with me. Every woman seems to have near-identical interests and everything about dating seems to be under their control and their control only.Ģ) Women, why do you never initiate contact? The result? A very low standard of profiles is prevalent. This is a tactic male users can't use of course because POF - with their sexist policies that punish all men for the actions of a few trolls - have banned all male users from sending private images. I have even seen a good number of women put no images on their profile and request that users message them if they want them PM'd. ![]() :)" I'm sorry but how the hell am I meant to talk about a woman's interests when they make no effort whatsoever on their fucking profiles? And the sad thing is it doesn't matter because men will obviously still message them either out of desperation or their looks. In fact, I have seen a sizeable number of users who just have absolutely blank profile descriptions or just type "message me if u want to know more. are suckers for people who can make them laugh.Apparently a lot of women are grammar nazis.) don't reply to illiterate users (this one came up even more. ![]() don't reply to perverted PMs (this one came up a lot.).To summarize a list of common traits these women: I have seen a gigantic trend in terms of female users in my country on POF.
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